Thursday, December 29, 2011

On a Road Trip

(written in 2008)

The pale and hazy moon
Above the endless dark fields
Is my only solace,
As we speed through this lonely road
On this trip that is taking too long.
I want to say goodnight to love.

The path to the highway seems endless,
And I am kept awake
By the bumps and turns
Of this shortcut we have taken.
Though I am keeping an eye on the road,
I want to say goodnight to love.

Thursday, December 06, 2007

In the Centrifuge

When love is tired, does it retire?
Can you blame a man for taking refuge,
Even though it pains him inside?

When the body is exhausted,
And the mind is screaming for respite,
Is it wrong to expect for something more,
More tangible than what fingers can send,
More meaningful than what inebriated words convey?


Maybe it is wrong to have some expectations,
But can you blame a man to want to move up the ladder
When he feels like he has gone through the first steps?

When your love is true, why do I feel so blue?
Would it be hard to answer the question "what am I to you?"
When you feel that you do?
Or maybe it would be better or best
To find solace that time would provide the answer for you.


When loving you becomes harder,
Could you lend a hand to make it easier?
Or maybe I should also question if my love is true,
Because even my questions may all be askew.
Then I should find solace that time would provide me answers, too.

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

come away with me

The first time I heard this song, I felt sleepy and bored. It was playing on Shiho's car as she was driving us to West Beach, Indiana, some years ago. It was a lazy, dreamy, & peaceful day. I learned to love the song ever since, and longed to hear it everytime I felt nostalgic, melancholic and longing for that idyllic day spent with friends I felt close with.

This past weekend, while working from home (yes, that's right), I browsed through old pictures of Chicago and couldn't help playing this song again. It is a classic for me- a song that I will always keep playing. And it again represents how I feel starting this past weekend and probably for weeks to come...

Come Away With Me
Nora Jones

Come away with me in the night
Come away with me
And I will write you a song

Come away with me on a bus
Come away where they can't tempt us
With their lies

I want to walk with you
On a cloudy day
In fields where the yellow grass grows knee-high
So won't you try to come

Come away with me and we'll kiss
On a mountaintop
Come away with me
And I'll never stop loving you

And I want to wake up with the rain
Falling on a tin roof
While I'm safe there in your arms
So all I ask is for you
To come away with me in the night
Come away with me

Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Eulogy for Desideria Belandres Tolentino

(from the voices of her brothers and sisters)
07.29.2007

We all go through life learning lessons. Small lessons we learn everyday, or those great ones we sometimes have to learn the hard way. But the Belandres family, our family, was blessed to have a great teacher in our midst. We were truly blessed to have Desideria or Desing – our teacher, not only of school lessons, but our mentor as we went through life’s great lessons.

She was our motivator, pushing us to excel in academics, who taught us the value of good education.

She was our surrogate mother in our early years, always having a special place in her home for her sisters, always caring, concerned, and attending to our daily needs.

She was a dutiful and selfless daughter and sister, who inspires us with the sacrifices she made to care for her parents and siblings. With her earnings as a teacher in elementary school, she selflessly provided for the educational needs, not only of her brothers and sisters, but also of others who needed her help as well.

She was a beautiful and good-hearted person, who gives and loves without expecting anything in return.

She was a wonderful soul, whose life is an inspiration to all of us. She lived life fully, lovingly, and in a way which taught us the greatest lessons in life.

I can picture Desing in her early teaching years, walking along the unpaved, rough roads of Barotac to school. Now, she walks with angels, in a path laden with the most beautiful roses and orchids, and illuminated with the most brilliant of lights.

Thank you, Desing, for passing through our lives, from your brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces. Your memories and lessons will always remain in our hearts.

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Anticipating

Like a little boy holding a boat-shaped ice cream bar
he just bought from a nearby sari-sari store
in the dead heat of summer,
His happiness contained in moments of anticipation,
My soul is refreshed, elated
By the mere sight of your glowing smile
And the twinkle of your almond eyes.

Anticipating our next encounter
I am restless, fidgeting
Searching for what can be done
What I could do
To fill the void.

Until I am once again in the vicinity
Of your sweet, glowing smile
And the twinkle of your almond eyes
Like stars that fall from the night sky
Directly into my heart.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

one fine Wednesday morning

My day didn’t start as well as I have hoped today. Crazy drivers seemed to be on the loose today in Marcos Highway! I wondered WHAT IS UP with today with everyone rushing, driving aggressively, seeming not to care if they hit, scratch, or bump the other vehicles around them. I nearly had an encounter with probably 2 or 3 stupid drivers! (Sorry for the language – it just feels good to let all the steam out.) At one point, I thought a motorcycle hit my rear bumper, since I felt the car nudged forward a bit. So when I got to the parking lot near the office, I checked the rear end of the car. Luckily, there was no sign that I got hit, so that nudge was probably just a result of my lack of sleep. But then I noticed a new scratch on the trunk. It’s a deep one, though small, and I felt a frustrated (yet again) thinking how and when I got it.

So just when I thought I will probably not be able to recover from the negative feelings which started my day, God seemed to have heard my subconscious prayer. As I was having breakfast, I browsed some old text messages and found this one from my cousin Nico:

Things we must be thankful for:
1. Worries at the start of day: means you’re still alive
2. Headache at the end of the day: means you can still work hard
3. Clothes that don’t fit: means you have a good appetite
4. The mess to clean after a party: means you have friends around you
5. Roof that needs fixing: means you’ve got a house
6. Taxes to pay: means you’re not unemployed
7. Heartaches: means you love selflessly
8. Too many text messages: means you are remembered much


Okay, so that made me feel better. Aside from the very apt first point, I’d also like to customize the fifth point to:
5. Car scratches that needs fixing: means you’ve got a car

It’s ironic how we sometimes find these types of SMS corny, but then sometimes they hit us at the right moment and they make us re-think, smile, and feel better.

Of course it also helps to get that extra rush from the greeting and encouragement of someone you care about. It certainly makes your day sunnier!

Monday, June 18, 2007

Muse

An old acquaintance and now a new-found friend has been encouraging me to write more. Even after a long time of not pursuing this passion, of just gathering dust on the books I bought and would like to read, somehow her encouragement propels me to pick up the pen, or rather, divert my typing skills to a more favorable pursuit for myself. She lights that small flame of inspiration on me, and I am grateful. She reminds me of those last lines from one of my favorite movies of all time, "Shakespeare in Love."

In this finale, Viola, Will Shakespeare’s lover, helps him concoct the beginnings of a new comedy, as she is about to sail to America with her new husband from an arranged marriage. Will writes:

My story starts at sea…a perilous
voyage to an unknown land…a shipwreck


the wild waters roar and heave…the
brave vessel is dashed all to pieces,
and all the helpless souls within her
drowned


all save one … a lady

whose soul is greater than the ocean …
and her spirit stronger than the sea's
embrace … not for her watery end, but
a new life beginning on a stranger
shore


It will be a love story … for she will
be my heroine for all time
and her name will be … Viola.


To my muse, thank you.